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Plays Well with Others 
 
While crisscrossing the country this year doing workshops on 
work-life balance and leadership for faculty groups, I have been 
shocked to find that most academic leaders in department chair 
or program director jobs have no formal nor informal preparation 
for their leadership positions nor have they shadowed those they 
are succeeding the semester before they take on the job; no one 
even suggests that they take a one day workshop in leadership 101 
or a workshop in basic people management skills. As one dean 
commented to me: “The problem with this place is that it is run 
by amateurs.” 
 
While many business executives may have majored in business 
management as undergraduates and have even gotten masters degrees 
in management, most academic earn their degrees in a content area 
such as physics or sociology or English. When it comes time to be 
honored or cursed with a chance to chair a department or direct a 
program, nothing in those content areas prepare the academic leader 
for the challenge of a leadership position.  
 
There are three areas that the new leader must get up to speed with 
immediately: time management, resource management, and people 
management. While leaders have background in managing their own 
time management successfully and can apply prioritizations skills 
to their new tasks, fewer leaders have experience with managing 
resources such as budgets, space, equipment, and scheduling of 
course. Very few have any formal course of study in basic people 
management skills. This lack of skills hurts them and their 
institutions the most since the number one reason faculty give 
for leaving academic positions in a poor relationship with the chair.  
 
This newsletter begins a several part series on the skills 
necessary to manage the people part of academic leadership jobs. 
I very much appreciate the feedback I have gotten from faculty 
attending more leadership workshop entitled “Plays Well With 
Others: Leadership Skills for Academics.” Their comments on 
how the workshop helped their skills develop, helped this material 
deepen. Because these skills are skills they must be practiced to 
be mastered. I would like to offer a holiday season special, 
a half-hour complementary session with me to practice and deepen 
your skills. If you sign up before the winter holiday break, 
I will give you a full hour even if our session is scheduled 
for January. In this issue I am going to cover some basic 
principles about people management and introduce the networking 
skills that you need for “greeting and meeting colleagues.”
 
 Skill Development 
 
Many faculty tell me they hate to “play politics” on their 
campuses. This concept is a mistaken and dangerous notion – 
mistaken because getting along with people is a basic human 
need and does not usually involve running for the US Senate 
and dangerous because an attitude that social skills are a game 
played by phonies locks you out from a world of fun and fulfillment 
in your work relationship. Instead of thinking about campus 
“politics” consider that there are strategies that help you 
connect to your fellow humans in ways that smooth out the tough 
work of the academy and increase your work satisfaction. 
Since the number one factor in faculty retention is the quality 
of the relationship with the department chair, both faculty 
and their chairs owe it to themselves and to their institution 
to establish as good a working relationship with each other.  
 
Humans are wired to be social. Survival of the individual and 
the species depends on our ability to connect to others for 
mutual benefit. Our cave fathers and mother lived in communities 
for safety and specialization of function. All depended on each 
other to provide services that no one person could provide for 
him/herself. Thus, we are hard wired to live and work in 
communities. No matter how much faculty like the autonomy of 
their jobs, we must not forget the reality of doing better when 
we get the support of others. Some of the autonomy that attracts 
faculty to academia can be our downfall when we try to specialize 
in being all things to all people. It leads to overwhelm so in 
academia, supporting and creating mutual harmony in our support 
systems decreases our own overwhelm and helps each other succeed. 
It is not game playing or Machiavellian to spend some time and 
energy building mutually supportive work relationships. You do 
not need to be best friends with these people. You just need to 
work with them towards a common goal related to your values 
such as education or the welfare of the students or the discovery 
and promulgation of research.
 
Success depends not on what you know or even who you know but 
how well you can work with those you know. The research on 
leadership and social intelligence shows that across diverse 
fields it is clear that success is 1/3 dependent on technical 
knowledge and skill in a field and 2/3 dependent on your social 
skills and how you use them to build professional alliances. 
 
Good professional relationships lead to access to resources. 
A department chair who can talk to his dean can easily negotiate 
for resources such as lab space, funding an adjunct positions to 
further the goals of a department … a faculty member in a good 
relationship with her chair is in a position to have … favorably. 
As one chair told me in a workshop this fall, “I try to be fair 
in the distribution of resources but I find myself saying yes 
more easily to those faculty who treat me well.”
 
Networking and keeping in touch with colleagues outside of 
your department and institution brings new opportunities to you 
without having to work hard to seek them out. When people have 
a project for which they need a collaborator with your skills, 
they are not as likely to think of you unless they have had 
contact within the last 30 days. With email it is easy to drop 
quick notes of encouragement and information to appreciative 
colleagues. Even introverted professor can connect with others 
without leaving their offices very often.
 
Loose new associations are valuable because of exposure to 
differing resources and opportunities. Target an occasion or 
new group or event to appear at to meet new people.
 
 Meeting and Greeting    
 
When professors take the Myers Briggs Type Indicator, 
a personal preference instrument, they often score higher 
in introversion than extroversion showing their preference 
for hanging out with people they are already acquainted with 
instead of taking on the energy to meet new people. What they 
need is an easy to follow system to meet people that is not 
too anxiety producing. 
 
4 low stress networking principles for introverted professors:
 
no small talk
 
no groups
 
no strangers
 
no forgetting
 
 Conclusion   
 
When procrastination anxiety plagues you, act and 
accept your way to progress and success. 
 
 
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